The sex of a fetus is determined by the nature of the sperm and not the ovum. The sex of the child, whether female or male, depends on whether the 23rd pair of chromosomes is XX or XY respectively. Primarily sex determination occurs at fertilization and depends upon the type of sex chromosome in the sperm that fertilizes an ovum. If it is an ‘X’ bearing sperm that fertilizes the ovum, the fetus is a female and if it is a ‘Y’ bearing sperm then the fetus is a male. “That He did create In pairs – male and female, From a seed when lodged (In its place).” [Al-Qur’aan 53:45-46]
The Arabic word nutfah means a minute quantity of liquid and tumnâ means ejaculated or planted. Therefore nutfah specifically refers to sperm because it is ejaculated. The Qur’aan says: “Was he not a drop of sperm emitted (In lowly form)? “Then did he become A clinging clot; Then did (Allah) make And fashion (him) In due proportion. “And of him He made Two sexes, male And female.” [Al-Qur’aan 75:37-39]
Here again it is mentioned that a small quantity (drop) of sperm (indicated by the word nutfatan min maniyyin) which comes from the man is responsible for the sex of the fetus.
Mothers-in-law in the Indian subcontinent, by and large prefer having male grandchildren and often blame their daughters-in-law if the child is not of the desired sex. If only they knew that the determining factor is the nature of the male sperm and not the female ovum! If they were to blame anybody, they should blame their sons and not their daughters-in-law since both the Qur’aan and Science hold that it is the male fluid that is responsible for the sex of the child!
Ma ke pet me ladki hai ya ladka hai?
Raham madar mein jins ka taiyen mard ke touledi khulye se hota hai na ke aourat ke hayxe( ہیضے) se, ladki ya ladka ka taiyen is bat pr munhasir hoga ke loni jismo “chromosome” ka 23 waan Joda baletarteeb (“xy” ya “xx) ek X ya X Y” , XX ki surat mein. Ladki aor XY ki surat mein ladka hoga, Quran pak mein Iska xikr Yun aya hai.. “”aor usne nar aor maadah ka Joda payda kiya, ek boond se jo tapkaie jati hai AL Quran 53:45/56)””
Arbi lafx “nutfa” ka Matlab hai maayeمائع”ki xarasi miqdar aor ” tumna” se murad hai taqat ke sath ikhraj ya xor se kisi shaye ko kisi jagha jamana – isliye yaha lafx “nutfa” se murad mardana maadah toleed hai jiska ikhraj xor se hota hai Quran pak mein Irshad bari tala hota hai “” kiya woh haqeer pani ka nutfa na tha jo (reham madar mein) tapkaya jata hai? Phir woh lothda bana phir Allah ne ise jism ki mutnasib shakal di phir usse murad aourat ki qasamein thehrayen AL Quran 75:37/39).
Yaha bhi intihai mamuli miqdar ke maadah touleed (ek qatra) ka xikr aya hai iske liye “nutfa” man mani yamni ” ke alfax istimal huwe hain.. Ye yaqinan mard hi ka maadah touleed hota hai jisse raham-maadar mein ladki ya ladka ka taiyen hota hai. Barre-sagheer hind-pak mein aksar sas ko pote ya narina aoulad ki aarxu hoti hai agr bahu beti ko Janam dede to Sara ilxam us ghreeb par ata hai ke bete ko Janam nahin kiyun nahin deya..
Aysi saas ko ilm hona chaiye ke ladki ya ladka ki paydaysh ki ximmedari to mard par aati hai.. Isliye ke mard hi ke nutfe se Bachche ke jins ka taiyen hota hai agr ilxam. Aana hi hai to mard par aana chaiye na ke aourat par Quran aor science dono ka ye mushtarka faysla hai hai ke Bachche ki jins mard ke nutfe se mutaiyan hoti hai